I agree with Painter, you have a couple of expectations forming 'I think it may be over with OW' and 'she may want to talk about reconciling.'

Always best to keep expectations at zero and if she and OW are 'off' allow some time to pass - maybe more as friends - before you agree to give things another go...if she does want to R.

Most likely there is some cycling going on so do protect your heart xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus