Not sure how to take comments such as, I'll always love you but it's different now, when I asked for another chance he says not right now, same with request for counceling. I do feel like his feelings love are blocked with anger and resentments from the past. He says he's going to break up with OW eventually! That girl should be told that(but I won't), or he could be just saying all this stuff not to hurt me. I feel in my gut it's not over but that may just be wishful thinking.

I have to GAL like it's over for good to heal I suppose. Tough stuff! Any advice or similar stories??


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since