NYGal: hopeful? Not so much

[Vanilla]

With regard to your WW, my thinking is "until you are prepared to commit to our M. Then I am living my live free of commitment to you. That includes public events where I may be presented as your spouse"

When you are ready to give up OW and be fully transparent then we can discuss"

You put not wasting money on a cancelled trip above our M. That is unacceptable to me.

So WW thanks but no thanks.

In the meanwhile move on with your life and be your own first choice.

V