14 days of sheer hell continues

[LiM]

DDJ,

You are running on anger right now. Slow down and take a deep breath. Its ok to be angry. Why wouldn't you be? But don't make decisions out of anger. I sense that you are taking these steps to "get her." That's not what DB'ing is about. DB'ing is to save your marriage. Its ok if you don't want that. Its fine to walk away if you feel its not worth fighting for. But make sure you take a long hard look at what you want.