Moving Ahead in UK - pt17 - been here so long!

[NDY]

Hey buddy. Thought I'd drop by.

So yea, she's annoyed that you can't accommodate the time off required in the summer with the kids. My question would be why those particular 3 weeks?

Let's be honest here. Before you and her broke up this wouldn't have been an issue. But now? So I get the 50/50 thing. I've just done the same with the STBXW and agreed what time I spend with S10 and what time she spends with him. All very amicable.

But more to the point. The feeling loss thing. I have no idea if my STBXW feels any loss. None, but now I done care. And I think this is a crucial juncture. She's p!ssed at me because the finalisation of the financials of the D isn't going her way. Tough.

Remember how I said I think she should pay for the D? Well, she doesn't like that.

However. Your point about meeting someone else. I thought about this as well and realised, for me at least it was only pride that kept me hanging on.

So I let it go, just like V said I should do.

And I'm much happier now.

Peace