Feeling lost

[srt]

Hi thanks Accuray, yes I think it was one of the things she complained about, but also she didn't want to come before BD day so that just weighed me down.

I have been doing some great GAL with me and the kids, so I suppose I've done a 180 (duh and I hadn't even realised!!!) and yes couldn't care less about what she thinks, we're still doing it! Hope she realises she is missing out.

This time it is a little different as W has suggested the activity and place in "my" time with the kids. 'd probably be taking them anyway. Just wondering if I should be open to her coming or not. It's not "a show" for me, she now knows I am a great Dad. Could this be her reaching out in a "safe" way - I have been trying to go NC for the last 2 months.
Thinking about the need for her to feel "loss" too as per Sandi's threads...

confused - can see arguments both ways on this one