Feeling lost

[srt]

Hi, Accuray, as always thanks for the advice, really insightful to learn more about WHY to follow Sandi's rules.

As it happen W has suggested we all meet up this weekend (I will have kids). I was unsure if she is being selfish by asking, but then unsure if I am being spiteful by declining.

I suppose I should give it further thought, and I told her I'd think about it.

I should say though that I didn't exactly go out of my way to organise things before BD day. Maybe this could be one of my 180s - read someone else on a different thread asking this? As always open to thoughts on this.

In other news work is going well, maintaining NC as best as I can and having a blast with the kids. Feeling better than I have for months.