My other issue is, is there an OW or not. I see what could be signs but then I am also looking for signs. Anything can look like a sign if you analyze it to death. The only device he currently uses is his cell phone which he keeps on him at all times. There is no chance of me getting my hands on it.
My gut feeling is that he is not having an A. But...hair cuts more often, getting in shape, changing clothes more often,disappearing for hours once or twice a week. That can all be seen as MLC/aging stuff as well...not necessarily an A.
I was away for the weekend this past weekend. From friday morning to sunday afternoon, no food had been touched and not a single dirty dish or coffee mug in the dishwasher (he doesn't hand wash dishes). So where was he all weekend?
I don't really understand if I have the right to ask since he has made it clear that he is done with the marriage and me.
