Question for everyone - How do you get through all the pain? I'm trying to sleep, but can't. I'm trying to eat, but am sick to my stomach 24/7. I already exercise a lot, so getting active isn't an option. I'm just in a sucky spot. Thanks.
Trust me, most of us, if not all, have the same issues. I've lost 20 pounds since D-Day. I suggest you go to your MD and tell him your symptoms, he can provide you some anti-depressants. Mine put me on Wellbutrin which has few side effects. It helps a bit with the rollercoaster of emotions that comes with the territory. I take melatonin at night to help me sleep. None of these cure the problem, however, but they do help with some of the symptoms. I'm still having terrible thoughts about the betrayal and particularly how my WW's lack of guilt over the whole thing.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016