Hi Painter, CWOL. First, there's no concern about anything incriminating or that could be used in court. CA is a no-fault state, unless she could prove physical or mental abuse or something like that. No, this is basically an I'm sorry it had to happen this way, some validation to her "feelings" (none of which can be used legally), and goodbye.
I'm still sitting on it, but after reflecting for a couple of days, I've not yet found a compelling reason not to send it. But it's still sitting there in a blank envelope for the moment.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)