I've submitted an online application for an idivorce service. But i plan to go through the process very slowly. She is asking for the divorce but i need to make it real for her.
I need to let her go and let her see the impact this will have. I definitely don't want to be plan B, which i am now. I need to be plan A and i have confidence that i can get there. But i need to take things slower.
We're selling our one car, to get two soon, and I want to do it regardless. M should be a choice for 2 people to be together, not a life sentence.
You're doing great. While this is going on make sure you're continuing GAL and truly detaching. That allows you to think clearly.