Originally Posted By: DDJ
I've submitted an online application for an idivorce service. But i plan to go through the process very slowly. She is asking for the divorce but i need to make it real for her.

I need to let her go and let her see the impact this will have. I definitely don't want to be plan B, which i am now. I need to be plan A and i have confidence that i can get there. But i need to take things slower.

We're selling our one car, to get two soon, and I want to do it regardless. M should be a choice for 2 people to be together, not a life sentence.


You're doing great. While this is going on make sure you're continuing GAL and truly detaching. That allows you to think clearly.



The future is as bright as you demand it be.