Sorry to see you leave. I'm in the same boat, but you will find everyone on here has a great shoulder - hell, we are all going through the same thing in one form or another.
The hardest thing to think about, let alone accept, is the fact that they no longer feel the same as us. That is something that is bothering much more than I want to let on.
From reading your situation, I'm not so sure he really is even feeling guilt - it seems more like he doesn't want to be the one who accepts the blame. Maybe he is like my W (I hope not, cause I wouldn't want to wish that on anyone) and has so thoroughly checked out that he really doesn't want to hurt you any more than possible. My W is famous for this - she lets it drag on than cutting it to the quick because she "doesn't like hurting anyone."
You are not alone...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
