Depressed to WW

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She pressed me this weekend about telling the kids AGAIN. She wanted to tell them Yesterday. She said she was gonna do it with or without me. I told her you don't want to do that! I told her there are other things that need to come first, like getting the house ready and putting it on the market.

I don't want to tell the kids now for a couple reason, and maybe you guys can give your opinion.

First is I still want to see if we can work on the marriage. I'm not at a point of giving up yet. I feel in her head, once she tells the kids it is that much easier to go through with this. Telling the kids is going to be the hardest part for her.

Second is telling the kids and then sitting in the house for 6 months or longer just prolongs the pain for them and also will confuse them. My youngest are both just turning 8.

I know I'm supposed to giver her what she wants but I think I need to pick what I give her as well