I've submitted an online application for an idivorce service. But i plan to go through the process very slowly. She is asking for the divorce but i need to make it real for her.

I need to let her go and let her see the impact this will have. I definitely don't want to be plan B, which i am now. I need to be plan A and i have confidence that i can get there. But i need to take things slower.

We're selling our one car, to get two soon, and I want to do it regardless. M should be a choice for 2 people to be together, not a life sentence.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.