Strong work DDJ. She is lost. Her life is in chaos. Let her be. In fact, pray for MORE chaos to enter her life. Pray that it crushes and consumes her. Not because you want her to suffer but because she needs to be convicted of the consequences of her actions. Feeling that, experiencing that is can help bring her out of the fog. I see that you recently filed for D. Has she been served yet?
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing