Maybe never. Hard to tell how long they stay in that mindset where they feel entitled and in control of us. Lucky I don't have to deal with that control issue right now but I'm sure at some point in the future I will.
Either way, just like you, it really doesn't matter. Let her get pissy and try to control you. Validate if you need to without reacting to her and continue to stand firm on what your doing for you.
Good to hear from you Huddy, enjoy the vacation with kids.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
