I'm glad you've been seeing an IC. Have you gained some useful insight from that? I would love to see us all thrive despite current difficult circumstances and I think that starts with deciding to do things for ourselves.

I think anyone posting on this part of the forum has probably experienced some pretty horrible behaviour from their MLC spouse. The important thing to know is that his current poor choices do not diminish you in any way. You are a unique, attractive, bright and loving person, who is 'enough' in her own right and doesn't need someone else to complete her.

I hope we can all find the momentum and the confidence to move forward (whatever our MLC spouses may be up to). That part is all about us and how we can learn, grow and heal through trying times - and I'll be right there cheering along and walking beside on that journey.

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus