V, you are so right!

I must learn to say 'no' in so many aspects of my life.

Maybe this whole ordeal is one navy seal training on how to say 'no' at the correct time and place. I just wish that the lessons are more palatable.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.