Double criteria again, one of my relatives is having a wedding, in a city 200km away.

So, I said I will go with D9, and she can come if she wants - she went berserk - that I will not drag a child 200 km to some stupid wedding, and that I can go if I want...

Do I have to mention that we 'dragged' child to weddings of her friends, and that D9 likes weddings?

Other than this fight, we went on a family lunch with recently divorced uncle. His ex wife was also there, and she talked to my wife how hard it is to find a good husband in her age and after divorce, showing a glimpse of regret, but this did not clear the for for my wife...


Me38,W36,D9
M 10y, R 14y

10/11/2015 wants to leave
25/12/2015 definitely wants to leave, makes plans
Jan 2016 started DBing
Feb 2016 sleeping in separate rooms
Sep 2016 sleeping in same room