To be fair to my W, she does back me up with the boys mostly.When she talks to them she often uses the term dad and man, whereas before it was mostly "I/me" statements.


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together