None of us know how our sitches will ultimately turn out. However please try to avoid absolutes like 'forever' as only time will tell.
Yes, he has chosen to leave your M and is with OW. He is however doing stuff with the kids, which is good.
Please try not to get stuck in this train of thought and try to focus on how you can move forward here, given all circumstances. Just remind me, are you seeing an IC at all? If not, you may find it helpful to explore these areas with her...
Things will get better I promise, but please know that this all needs to be about you and the kids as focusing on him will just bring further pain and torment. Try and focus on what you can control.
((((Hugs)))
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
