So, maybe a couple of potential goals there? 2016 could be the year you choose to learn to swim? Most leisure centres offer 1-1 sessions for all ages...

Also, you love to cook but don't do so much of it now...again maybe this is an area you could pursue too?

All of us (to an extent) lose ourselves in our Ms - your H is gone for now - and this does present an opportunity for you to do some things just for you....xx

If you can take the initial baby steps towards that, it does get easier I promise... smile

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus