You have had a lot on your plate. It is normal to be run down at times. Sometimes you sound like your activities for example the gym are obligations rather than choices. Early on in this process maybe you should have committed to go regardless. At this stage you have a very active life so I would encourage you to drop the stuff that is not really serving you, but don't take up couch surfing again!

Fitness is not crap and people who aren't sporty are not necessarily lazy asses. Interesting choice of words..........


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together