And on it goes

[Sotto]

Hi Mia, sorry you're up early. I had that for a while too and it does pass. It's good that you have some friends to call at weekends & maybe make some plans with one of your friends for the next time kids are with your H? That way, whilst you'll miss them still - you'll also have nice plans for yourself.

Those are some good questions from Twinmom - I look forward to hearing more about you too - not you in relation to H and your sitch - just you.... :)X

Now then - you mentioned the dating site and I would encourage you to think carefully about what you want here - though of course it's up to you if you choose to date. If in any doubt, Google 'relationships and entanglements' and have a think about the difference between the two, and whether you are in a place where you are ready for another relationship. You say it's for fun, but how far do you intend taking that and do you still hope your M might be saved - maybe not yet but somewhere down the line?

Maybe just some food for thought on that one anyway. I've met too many people who jumped early on into dating, jumped into another R, that didn't work out and they end up dealing with the whole thing later on. I've never yet met anyone who regretted waiting 'too long' before starting to date!

Hope this week is a better one for you Mia xx