Feel like learning baby step; goodness, I'm 20 months post bombed, am I learning slow? Saturday, I took courage to call husband, really curious about how he is doing, I haven't seen or heard from him for two months. We had no long conversation, he did not spew anymore. Told me about the work he's been doing. Sounds like he's been working all the time, he also told me there will be a trip to Japan of his working team, he will be travelling for 5 days.
Are they(MLCer) really having the mood ? I mean, travelling? vacation ? or they are escaping from the reality? Not to mention he has debt... (I received notice from bank of his credit card bill due, mailed the notice to his office)
Like you said, he kept the secrecy, distant and cold, like we've never married, I'm a stranger to him... this time he was polite through our conversation, does this mean the situation gets better than six months ago (that time he pushes for divorce and spewing severely)
Thank you Job in helping us through this difficult time !
