Hi, Wet -- I hear you! I have been standing for about five years and during that time I lived through cancer, my mother's death and my H's adultery, our financial ruin, as well as the terrors of raising our kids through the abandonment brought by MLC. I have moved on too -- but not to other men, just to God! I know my marriage is dead right now and I have totally detached from my H and I lead my own life with my kids but I plan to uphold my vow and keep believing that God can resurrect the marriage through any impossible circumstance. Obedience to God through standing gives me a lot of very intense and deep joy -- a different joy than I pictured for myself in my life, but i think a much deeper one, even alongside all the sorrow.

For some reason for the past year or so, even though I don't go to these boards anymore, I was drawn to tell you all the things I have said to you and to keep you and your W in my prayers. I hope you don't mind. I send you and your family a lot of love and faith, I know you are a wonderful father and a rock to your kids, it gives me so much hope in humanity to see how you are about your kids. They will treasure it all their lives, no matter what.


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Love and blessings on you and your family.

- Gerda

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I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living.
Wait for the Lord with courage.
Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.