My DB coach strongly suggests not telling family and friends about marriage trouble, as it tends to complicate the situation more. But, after spending the last two weekends (without H) with 4 couples that make up our closest friends, I am starting to run out of reasons for H not being around.
Does anyone have any advice on how to handle this? I have headed things off at the pass so far but, as we normally see these 4 couples on a very regular basis, and H has apparently decided to just avoid them all (as he does with all things when they might get difficult), this leaves me fielding a million questions about where he is and what he is doing when he would normally be with all of us.
We are a very close knit group of friends that has known each other a long time and I know that if and when they finally find out the situation it is going to be a big bomb drop, and then it will spread like wildfire.
I don't know how to handle this and it is stressing me out.
