I can see how it will seem like to him from the way I gave my reasons.
I guess when I approach him, I will have to put it in such a way that it's for kid to see more of my family, than it's because I don't want kid to spend time with his family.
I do appreciate that they still love her, although I am very upset at what they've been telling her. And I have been telling xh and xfil that.
I realise that it's all in the packaging, the way I put things across. That I have to consider from another person's perspective. Lesson learnt.
Another lesson learnt. When life gives lemon, you either make lemonade or if you don't want to, you throw back the lemons.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.