So she just asked me if I meant what I had said about signing the renewal papers for her green card and helping her stay here. Which I did mean when I said it and I told her yes, with that being the case, she wants to stay married for this whole process and keep living together and find a new place and sign another 12 month lease together.

I want to see this as an opportunity to give me the time to continue GAL and her being a witness to help her to change her mind but I am not trying to focus on that. I wonder if it will make it even tougher to GAL with her still around. I am excited to have her here and not be a long distance away so once I am ready to bring things back up she's not across the world but it makes me question many things.

Thoughts?

First date 12/24/13
M 3/12/14
BD 2/8/16
Working on it alone since 2/8/16
Doing things wrong 2/8/16
Doing things different 3/12/16