Hi Cadet, Thanks for your response and helpful links and tips! Luckily I have done NONE of the pursuing behaviors!yeah, me!
I will check out all the links.
One question - what do you mean by: 'Believe none of what he or she says and half of what he/she does' - are you saying that based on your experience here that someone who 2 weeks ago was sending me loving whatsapp messages but is now saying he's 'done' doesn't know what the hell he's feeling/thinking/really wanting? Also, can you clarify what you mean by the 'gift of time' ?? Are you saying time is on my side since I am the one who's committed and knows this can work out? yes, my job is to GAL!!!! Been too focused on my husband as center of my world - I love him but want to be together because i love him, not NEED him! Thanks for your support today - really appreciate it!
