Ok. Thank you for chiming in Vanilla. You are absolutely right. I'll leave him be, and give myself the gift of more time without turmoil.

He knows I am right here, waiting on him. As always...

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16