My WW has actually not gone anywhere or done anything since her trip to the other city. Insanely, I'm the one with a life now. Going out, seeing old friends, enjoying life and my time with our S4.

She doesn't actually have any support structure which clearly works in my favour.

I can see that she's missing me but I disregard it totally. She says that she'll not contact OP if he comes down, but will meet up if he contacts her. That's so sweet of her and a great way to build trust. Lol

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.