Phoebe, thanks. That's pretty much it - to give me a sense of closure. If somehow it reaches the person I used to know, great. If not, fine. Who knows, it could go straight into the trash, unopened.
Me: 58 Her: 59 Kids: 0 Dog: 1 ILYBINILWY: 9/15 D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed) Verified OM: 1/11/16 Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)