NYGal: hopeful? Not so much

[Sotto]

Hi NYG, I'm sorry to read that sad news and I wonder if she wants to talk to someone who also knew your friend well perhaps?

As for a possible meeting, I would encourage you to sit back and merely respond. You already helped push it along by asking when - but actually I would let her do that and you purely check your schedule and respond.

Have absolutely no expectations - that is important. You know already that your W will share her confusion with you and be planning her next trip with OW. That is unlikely to change in the short term so please take anything she says with a huge pinch of salt and as a minimum, expect her to be all done with OW before you would even begin to discuss a possible R.

Hope you are still busy with GAL and having a nice weekend xx