I have no real advice, but I just wanted to say that maybe if you do follow the guidelines from the books his desire will come back? I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't know if there is something you can do to change his feelings, but you can make yourself more desirable by being happier in yourself.
I hope things will work out for you
Thanks for posting.
I agree. There probably isn't anything I can do, other than stop the things I know cause friction in our relationship and focus on meeting my needs in other ways. That and hope, hope, hope.
But if anyone has suggestions for other things to try, I am all ears.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
