I have been reading your thread.

Amazing advice from Sandi and you were smart enough to be guided.

It is likely that a scum bag OM like this will cheat on WW, could be with a guy.

High high risk relationship, an OM who cheats with a woman M with kids is pond scum.

Likely a meltdown coming at some point.

The signs are there. RD WW OM is a scumbag too, alcoholic etc

I like the way you are handling this

V

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW