Way Too Late Pt 3

[Phoebe]

Sometimes I wish for a little numbness. Hang in there 1313.

No one can possibly do everything right, and who's to say what "right" really is, anyway?

We LBSs try to do what we can, but the reality is that we truly have no control over our spouses because they are the ones driving the bus. If they don't see us because they've moved out and on, then there's really nothing that we can do to alter their course.

It's discouraging to realize, but I'm getting there. Slowly. DBing is for us, not for our marriage. If our spouses notice, then maybe it can change or improve the M, but otherwise, it's out of our hands. I didn't realize that for a long time. I still wish it weren't so.