I am still friends with my W in facebook I am guessing the right things would be to unfriend her so I do not see the posts of her getting by and posting thugs that indirectly hurt my feelings
Ghost
Ghost, I am pretty sure I have given this advice a few times already. Personally, I would block her (I blocked mine). This ensures I will see very little about her. Second best is to unfriend. At the very least unfollow.
There is the advice, but you have heard this before. If you would have listened before than your feelings would not have been indirectly hurt this time. Act on it to save yourself some grief in the future.