Way Too Late Pt 3

[1313]

I'm so sorry to hear things are moving so quickly for you in the direction you least wanted to go, 1313.

I have no idea if a letter is a good idea, or not, but your heart is surely in the right place. I hope someone else chips in their thoughts on that.

What I wanted to say is that I completely relate to your lack of anger. My therapist keeps saying "you must have a lot of anger at your husband for what he's done," but any anger just passes me right on by most of the time. I may feel it for a little bit, more in the last few days, but then it just goes away. I'm just really sad and missing him and confused.

Phoebe,
While I worked myself up to anger/shock at the very beginning of the process, it was only in brief spurts. I know I did a lot of things wrongly, as Sandi says about some of us "nice guy" types.

Honestly, I'm either sad or numb most of the time - so I completely understand. I suppose that I'm really trying to move to forgiveness and closure. Certainly this could all change at the court thing in 10 days, depending on what the W does. I think the L's are trying to finish this off as quickly as possible, so we'll see.