Bright, How is the new car working out? I'm glad you got the insurance issue(s) all taken care of.
You had mentioned in an earlier posting that your h might be depressed again...Bright, the depression doesn't go away, it is always there until they come out of the crisis and in some cases, it may be something he will have for the rest of his life which he will need to be on meds for.
Don't try to over think the condo redecorating stuff. No one knows what is going on in his head and I still think he redecorated to make a "change" to see if he would feel better when he is there. It could be redecorated again in six months! LOL!
As for taking care of the internet problem...good for you. See, he can't even think straight to figure out what he needs to do first, i.e., call the internet provider to see if the problem can be fixed or to take it to the shop and pay big bucks and nothing is wrong w/it. They just can't put two and two together when it comes to making decisions about stuff. Their brains are scrambled at best and depression does that to them.
I'm glad to see that you've had some fun and ran the race. I do hope that you've got some plans for the holiday at the end of May and I do hope that you are enjoying your new car.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.