in the case of my H, he has said that "eventually" we will be happy and in relationships with other people, he hopes ... said in the trailing off voice of someone who isn't really sure that even they buy the hogwash they are selling others ...

i think one of the key factors in all of this is that they have no impulse control and just flop about, flying by the seat of their pants. That's why it's so important for us LBSes to focus on GAL and ourselves, so we aren't at the mercy of the MLCers' rampant insanity.

xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver