also want to add this: i've gone the totally independent route, and also at times asked H for help around the place. my experience has shown me that I'm personally a LOT more comfortable spending the $ and taking care of it myself.

just my $.02

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver