I hope you have a lovely evening with your little girl, SadHub, and your D17 sounds pretty incredible.
Whatever happens, reminding yourself to breathe is a really good thing. : )
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16