If only every H could get the message "Be careful what you wish for" BEFORE they do what they do, right? They think the grass is greener, and then... it's not.

I suspect that being without you hasn't lived up to his sunny expectations and he's feeling the loss while you are moving on with your own life.

Keep doing what you're doing, Painter!

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16