Got to be frank here Rouky. I think the only chance you have of getting your husband's attention is to start seeing or make him think that you are seeing another man. I promise you that he will not like it and the thought of you with another man will make him think about what he is missing. I really do think that he has never contemplated you moving on and being with another man. The possibility of and the reality of are two completely different things. Also his wanting you to go to the wedding is bizarre. Trying to figure out why will only drive you crazy. I'm sad for you Rouky and wish that I could help but remember that I am always thinking of you.


M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.