Jeep, bounce it off of us!! You are so great with giving me inputs whenever I feel confused about how I should respond. Also, my DB Coach offered the idea of a 48 hour rule. When the WAS does or says something that makes you crazy, makes you want to throttle them even, stop... let it sit for 48 hours... feel free to come here and share with us, and then you will have a cooler head.

She is the one out of control, so show her that you are the grounded one. Even if she doesn't respect that now she certainly will when she begins to see the destruction she caused after the dust settles.


Me:33 H:34
T: 3yrs M: 2yrs
H depression triggered and we are "unhealthy": 7/15
H wants to "make it work" 12/28
BD: 3/10/16