1gr8dad, your response helped give me the motivation to do what needs to be done.

Detach. GAL. Go dark.

I KNOW it's necessary, and as I type, he's on a date with one of his match people. This kills me inside, but I need to give it to God. Thank you, EVERYONE - who responded for your advice.

I can do this!!

Me 35 H 45
M 12 T 13
S16, S11, D7, D5
IDTB (I dropped the bomb) 9/30/15