I've come to realise that my WW has never ever accepted the responsibility that a wife and a mother must accept. She would be drinking and passing out whilst her young son was inside playing by himself. My fault is that I allowed that.
This does not condone her actions though, I cannot blame myself for what she did. She keeps on telling me that I must accept some sort of responsibility for what is happening now. I refuse to. If you give someone a gun to kill another, it does not mean that they will do so - they still have the choice to do what they do. Can't discount free will, which is what our WWs want right now.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
