All white looks great but so hard to maintain. I quite like the black with the sparkles. With plenty of cupboards to hide things!
Hmm I'd say he is probably looking for evidence of a male friend stopping over. Men can be jealous creatures. Even though they aren't sure if they want us- they sure as hell don't want anyone else too. And with you being such a hot piece of ass he knows that you won't be short of the attention.
Ugh, hired help is over rated :P nothing wrong with a gal doing it herself. I'm sure the novelty would wear off after a while and they would be happy seeing a woman who balance being a mom, working and a house- it's a tough job but we do it.
You are right, there's not a lot we can do with their thoughts, the best we can do is try to move forwards the best we can.
He would for sure miss the interaction between the two of you. No matter what hold tp has over him, you are the mother of his child- a child made with love. And when he sees the two of you together that is just going to remind him of that.
If it's any insight to a waywards mind. When I asked my h the last time he came back what brought him back. One of the things was seeing how I was still being a good mom and looking after baby
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16