Well, do I wait for her to cheat on me, or do I divorce her so that she can?

I know that I'm moving fast, I need to get the book, this is total emotions. I do see it as a way of detaching tho.

Dealing with her about our son and dealing with her about us are two different things. She wants weekday custody of our son, with me on weekends. Our son is already asking questions.

I know that I only really get 1 chance to save my M, but what about saving myself?

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.